Why should our children be forced to be physically uncomfortable just to make an adult feel good about themselves? I have many times explained to family and friends that I will never force my children to hug or kiss someone that they do not want to. Many times if an adult simply ask a child for a hug, the child will feel more comfortable and will hug. As a child I hated being forced to give people hugs, especially men. As an adult I'm even more uncomfortable with being touched, and I know it has gotten worse over time. No, I was never sexually abused, but telling children that affection equates to respect of elders does lead to them being confused about what is appropriate touching and what isn't. Remember almost every case of sexual abuse is done to a child by someone they know. This poster is a great way to show our children some easy steps they can take to protect themselves when we aren't around.
